Why does it have to be that way? Well it's something called human nature or the word most commonly used is that you may just have haters.
My definition of a hater is someone who dislikes an individual based on what they have, their success or how they look.
Everyone is sure to have at least one hater. Its how you treat your hater is what really matters.
This is where most people will miss up, so I have a set of rules that these people should follow.
Rule 1: Never, ever, under no circumstances ever, be a hater yourself. That would just defeat the purpose.
Rule 2: Never allow your hater to get under your skin. If he/she does let the results be positive.
Rule 3: Always acknowledge your hater with a smile. Yes, a genuine smile. Why? Well this theory is called "killing them with kindness." IF THIS DOES NOT WORK THEN KEEP YOUR COOL
Rule 4: Let people believe what they want. You are not put on Earth to please anyone but yourself and GOD. (Last time I checked GOD loved everyone, flaws and all)
Rule 5: Refer to rule one.
This is not at all professional advice, just my view on the subject. Hope this works for you :)
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